Linstor_db outdated deleting

After unexpted shutdown of primary server (usv fault) in a proxmox HA cluster with 3 nodes
i see that linstor_db ist outdated.
with dmesg is see

drbd linstor_db: State change failed: Device is held open by someone

one of the vm disks was even outdated. I resolved this by deleting the vm-disk and restore from last backup.

All vm´s are running again but how can i resolve the linbit_db problem ?

linstor 1.8.0
drbdadm Version: 9.18.0
proxmox 6.4-13

(2 nodes with disk , third node diskless only for quorum)